The Evolving Man: Coaching & Support Groups For Men

We build healthy masculine men.

If you want to live a deeper, fuller life—we can help.

If you want to rekindle the spark in your marriage and be the man of your wife’s fantasies—we can help.

If you want to model healthy masculinity for your kids, and show up for them as the best father they could ask for—we can help.

If you want to show up in your career as healthy, as powerful, as a mentor who other men can trust to get the job done—we can help.

If your external life is going well, but you crave a deeper purpose or a deeper connection to your Creator—we can help.

If you want to be a healthy, powerful, masculine man, then we built The Evolving Man for you. We help make good men even better, and we do that by accomplishing five goals:

1. We fix “Nice Guys,” doormats, and people-pleasers.

2. We learn about female psychology and successful relationship behaviors.

3. We learn skills all men should know.

4. We learn how to be a great leader.

5. We deepen our spiritual connection.

Services We Offer

To help men get in touch with their healthy masculine energy and live into their purpose, we offer four services:


Twice-monthly meetings (in-person or virtual) built for collaborative support. Men support each other in finding and living into their highest calling.


Two day retreat exploring four archetypes of men: king, warrior, magician, lover. Transcend your shadow side and start living into your purpose.


An intensive workshop on Being. Overcome obstacles and achieve your long-term deeply-held goals and desires.

Intensive work for the man with a solid foundation. Our coaches can help you tap into your masculine energy and access your highest self.


The TEM Community was founded by Geoff Laughton in 2007 in response to seeing so many men who were hungry to tap into healthy masculine energy, and ready to step up and be true leaders of their own lives.

Geoff Laughton


Geoff is a Relationship Architect/Coach, multiple-International Best-Selling Author, Speaker, and Workshop Leader. He has spent the last twenty-six years coaching people world-wide, with a particular passion for supporting those in relationship, and helping men from all walks of life step up to their true potential.

Mark Johnson


Mark is a men’s coach, business and relationship coach, facilitator, and wilderness guide with more than 20 years of experience helping people and companies grow. He has been part of TEM since 2014, and its CFO since 2016.



Ready to tap into your masculine energy, find your purpose, and start living in integrity? Reach out today.