The Evolving Man: Coaching & Support Groups For Men
We build healthy masculine men.
If you want to live a deeper, fuller life—we can help.
If you want to rekindle the spark in your marriage and be the man of your wife’s fantasies—we can help.
If you want to model healthy masculinity for your kids, and show up for them as the best father they could ask for—we can help.
If you want to show up in your career as healthy, as powerful, as a mentor who other men can trust to get the job done—we can help.
If your external life is going well, but you crave a deeper purpose or a deeper connection to your Creator—we can help.
If you want to be a healthy, powerful, masculine man, then we built The Evolving Man for you. We help make good men even better, and we do that by accomplishing five goals:
1. We fix “Nice Guys,” doormats, and people-pleasers.
2. We learn about female psychology and successful relationship behaviors.
3. We learn skills all men should know.
4. We learn how to be a great leader.
5. We deepen our spiritual connection.
Services We Offer
To help men get in touch with their healthy masculine energy and live into their purpose, we offer four services:
WHO WE ARE
The TEM Community was founded by Geoff Laughton in 2007 in response to seeing so many men who were hungry to tap into healthy masculine energy, and ready to step up and be true leaders of their own lives.
Geoff Laughton Founder/CEO
Geoff is a Relationship Architect/Coach, multiple-International Best-Selling Author, Speaker, and Workshop Leader. He has spent the last twenty-six years coaching people world-wide, with a particular passion for supporting those in relationship, and helping men from all walks of life step up to their true potential.
Mark Johnson CFO
Mark is a men’s coach, business and relationship coach, facilitator, and wilderness guide with more than 20 years of experience helping people and companies grow. He has been part of TEM since 2014, and its CFO since 2016.
TRUST. RESILIENCY. RESULTS
WHAT MEN SAY ABOUT TEM
When I joined TEM 7 years ago, I was ready and willing to grow in my life; however, I had NO idea the journey I was starting out on. The men in TEM have helped me get in integrity with myself, along with becoming a more honest person with myself and with others. If you want to get the most out of your life, have better relationships, and truly live a FULL, passionate life, this is on of the best ways to get there, with the help and support of your brothers.
The biggest lesson I’ve learned from TEM is that my ego may try and fool me but it doesn’t fool the group. The men’s honest and loving support has helped me to pursue life goals that once seemed almost impossible. Men of all ages need heart-centered, positive male role models to help us thrive, and TEM is an amazing place to find that.
TEM has taught me so much – I feel I could write a book on the benefits I have got from the group. One thing TEM has taught me is that I can CHOOSE how I feel! I have the ability to change my attitude and perspective about any situation – it’s MY choice. Another thing is how I communicate with people has got so much better since I started this journey. An example: after doing the KWML retreat, I had a job interview the next day. Well, not only did I get the job but I negotiated the employment conditions I needed. I had never done this before. I couldn’t be happier in the way this has turned out.
The most powerful lesson I’ve learned about myself in doing the TEM work is that I have some powerful shadows that I used to hide from. Without this group of men, who were willing to get their hands dirty and hold me accountable, I might have gone ‘dark’, isolated myself in alcohol and broken my marriage. The coaches ability to hone in on the reality of what I said and reflect it back in a way that allows me to get the “ah ha” moment for myself, without giving it to me, is truly amazing. Now, because of TEM, I’m a better husband, father and friend.
When I first came to TEM, I was a lost soul attempting to sort through the pieces of my broken life. Through an intricate exposure of habits and perspectives by the group, many of which were deeply buried, I was able to rewrite, reframe, and move on from my past. By learning to focus on my state of being, and taking action from that place, my life completely transformed. I am currently in a joyful, fulfilled marriage, and an owner of a successful business. The leaders of TEM are truly gifted in their work, and are adept at creating a container of growth unlike any I’ve experienced.
Ready to tap into your masculine energy, find your purpose, and start living in integrity? Reach out today.