Antifragile Coaching (Life Coaching For Men)

At The Evolving Man, we’ve been helping men grow into their power for over 20 years. We’re trained men’s life coaches, and the work we do with our clients is the same work we’ve done ourselves: work to become the men of our women’s dreams, the fathers our children need, to build successful careers of purpose and meaning.

As male life coaches, we offer 3 broad areas of coaching: Masculinity Coaching, Executive Coaching, and Relationship Coaching.


The TEM Community was founded by Geoff Laughton in 2007 in response to seeing so many men who were hungry to tap into healthy masculine energy, and ready to step up and be true leaders of their own lives.

Geoff Laughton


Geoff is a Relationship Architect/Coach, multiple-International Best-Selling Author, Speaker, and Workshop Leader. He has spent the last twenty-six years coaching people world-wide, with a particular passion for supporting those in relationship, and helping men from all walks of life step up to their true potential.

Mark Johnson


Mark is a men’s coach, business and relationship coach, facilitator, and wilderness guide with more than 20 years of experience helping people and companies grow. He has been part of TEM since 2014, and its CFO since 2016.

Executive Coaching

If this is you:

  • You’re successful in your career, but you feel like your work doesn’t matter. 
  • You’ve climbed the corporate ladder, but you’re struggling to get to the next rung. You’re being passed over for promotion to the highest levels and don’t know why.
  • You manage a team but feel like they walk all over you.

We can help. We can help you:

  • Develop the strength, humility, and antifragility of a true leader. 
  • Tap into your true purpose, so you wake up on Monday morning excited to get to work.
  • Fix your Nice Guy / people pleaser tendencies, to be the bulletproof leader your team needs and your executives respect.
  • Reach the next level of professional development and achieve your goals.
  • Build a career that makes a difference in the world (without taking a giant pay cut)

Interested? Get in touch today.

Men’s Work and Mentorship

If this is you:

  • Not sure what it means to be a man
  • Stuck in Nice Guy / people pleaser mode and not sure how to get out
  • Craving something deeper, but you’re not sure what

We can help. We can help you:

  • Develop the bulletproof groundedness to steer your ship through stormy seas
  • Access your own healthy masculinity
  • Overcome social anxiety, and cultivate true and lasting mental health
  • Tap into a deep connection with Spirit
  • Connect to your warrior heart and live the quest you were born for
  • Build a life of joy, adventure, and meaning

Interested? Get in touch today.

Relationship Coaching

If this is you:

  • You love your wife but don’t feel desired by her. You miss the hot sex you had as newlyweds
  • You provide for your wife, but it feels like that’s not enough and she’s still upset.
  • You feel like a badass at work but then feel whipped at home

We can help. We can help you:

  • Rekindle the spark in your marriage. Rediscover the fun, flirty, sexual woman you married.
  • Understand female psychology and be the badass man your wife wants you to be
  • Rebuild a deep, loving connection with your family
  • Feel excited to go home every day and kiss your wife and hug your kids
  • Get clarity on whether to stay and fight for your marriage, or if it’s truly time to move on

Interested? Get in touch today.



Coaching Programs

Want to work with Mark or Geoff 1-on-1 to build a career of purpose and meaning, rekindle the spark in your marriage, and develop your healthy grounded masculine energy?

Here are the nuts and bolts of what we offer:

Individual Session

90 minutes


4 Sessions

90 minutes each


Monthly Coaching

We’ll customize a plan that suits your goals and your timeline. By application only.

Ready to tap into your masculine energy, find your purpose, and start living in integrity? Reach out today.

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